On A Dating App, The First 3 Exchanges Set The Tone

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Jun 02, 2025

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As you know, I do a ton of dating consultations. I also spent years of my life talking to people on dating apps. I actually met an ex boyfriend on Hinge! The one thing I know for sure, and want to share with you now, is the importance of the first few exchanges. And I’ll be backing my thoughts up with evidence from real conversations that I’ve helped my followers with.

Let’s start with what is important when it comes to these first exchanges. And we’ll use the above as an example:

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